I Am Not Alone
By John Braland, President of IMF's Board of Directors
If you are part of the family of God, they are connected to you and you are connected to them. God created us for community because he lives in community. God himself gives us the perfect example of living in community: the trinity. When you and I are connecting with one another to live for the glory of God, we are being Christ-like.
Jesus says that the main way people will believe that Christians have found the love of God is by seeing the quality of their life together in community. Being connected to other Christians is an important way of sharing the gospel! There are a couple reasons why, when Christians live in community with one another, it pleases Him.
First, community shapes the development of our character. Our character is mainly shaped by our primary social community. Jesus spent time eating, walking, talking and laughing with his disciples. Jesus example alone suggests that we best learn and apply what we are learning in the context of Christian community like a small group and among friends.
Most of the ethical principles in the bible are not simply codes of behavior, they are descriptions of a new community that bears the spiritual fruit of love and holiness. It’s harder to live godly in isolation than it is to live godly lives with other like-minded people. This is positive peer pressure, or accountability.
Second, community is essential to spiritual growth. The early church passionately followed Jesus' teachings. Acts 2:42-46 gives us a really clear picture of the Christian community the early church experienced.
“42They devoted themselves to the apostles' teaching and to the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer. 43Everyone was filled with awe, and many wonders and miraculous signs were done by the apostles. 44All the believers were together and had everything in common. 45Selling their possessions and goods, they gave to anyone as he had need. 46Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, 47praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people. And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved.”Acts 2:42-47
A person’s life primarily revolves around three things: Their home, their career, and a third place. For many people, that third place is a bar, sports events, the shopping mall, a friend’s garage, or church.
Christian community is perhaps the main way believers bear witness to the world. Jesus tells us that the best witness you can give is to love other believers. That’s what Jesus said in John 13:34-35: “…Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”
In conclusion, the author of Hebrews writes: “Let us not give up meeting together, as some as in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another-and all the more as you see the Day approaching.”Hebrews 10:25 I challenge you to seek out and even create more Christian community in your life. Here are a few ideas as to how to do that.
1. Meet for lunch with another believer
2. Start a weekly bible study at work
3. Ask someone to pray for you
4. Ask if you can pray for someone
5. Find a mentor
6. Join a small group
7. Start a small group
8. Start a mom’s group. Meet at the same time and place every week to let the kids play and you can talk about life together.
9. Go out to dinner with another person or a couple.
10. Serve together. A recent survey stated that 74% of people indicated “volunteering and serving together” helped them develop friendships.